A crush has nothing to do with beauty. Of course, everything starts with a sexy look, but at the end what will determine your success with the significant other will be your attitude. Being authentic is the hottest quality.
There is an important distinction we must take into account: one thing is attraction and another, very different, a crush with somebody. Attraction is when you see someone and you like what is in front of you, but having a crush is something deeper and for sure, your feelings are involved there.
Learn how to make someone fall for you
Have you ever been nervous when seeing or talking to someone? I know those moments are horrible, but did you know that the best thing to beat this is just being yourself?
People find very cute when you can be totally yourself around them and this has a very simple explanation: they can be themselves too. Pretending is just very tiring and something that cannot last either. And also, if you have to behave like a completely different person to make them like you, let me tell you they are not the right ones.
Self-love, self-esteem and security are a must-have. If you don’t like yourself, how do you expect others to like you? Don’t expect others to see what you cannot. When you love yourself, you will be able to demonstrate it with simple acts like looking people to their eyes when talking. If you believe in yourself and your worth, you won’t feel ashamed when expressing your ideas and thoughts.
Smile, big smile. Positive and happy people are impossible to resist, but please don’t fake it! Be natural and don’t forget the importance of a good conversation. Interesting comments are highly appraised.
Even if attraction is just physical, don’t think that when you want someone to have a crush on you this is not outstanding. Always dress nicely and try not to show a lot. Best things are those that you cannot see.
