Have you ever been in a relationship for more than 1 year? Hasn’t it happened to you that there’s a point where you start relaxing more around your partner and you barely want to put some make up on and stop worrying about grooming in general? The secret behind all these is that the crush just lasts for around 2 to 4 years.
However, it doesn’t necessarily mean that after this time you have to split. There are couples who manage to stick together for longer and there are others who don’t, but why? The perfect word to describe this is “reinventing”. You have to reinvent every now and then the relationship to keep the fire burning!
There’s a big difference between “a crush” and “love”. A crush is the first stage of love where you see your other significant as perfect and you often describe the sensation as being drugged because you will do whatever it takes to please them, meanwhile love is what you develop after 2 years when you deeply care about your partner and confidence between each other start to arouse.
At the very beginning relationships are shallow but too intense and with the time it starts to change to the opposite. At this point you should have built a strong a structure in terms to make the connection lasts.
The general rules have shown that average relationships last for 4 and a half years, however it changes from one person to another and there are cases where people had been together for the rest of their lives. As long as Eros/intimacy exist everything is possible!
Let us know your thoughts and experiences! Happy to read your stories guys!
However, it doesn’t necessarily mean that after this time you have to split. There are couples who manage to stick together for longer and there are others who don’t, but why? The perfect word to describe this is “reinventing”. You have to reinvent every now and then the relationship to keep the fire burning!
There’s a big difference between “a crush” and “love”. A crush is the first stage of love where you see your other significant as perfect and you often describe the sensation as being drugged because you will do whatever it takes to please them, meanwhile love is what you develop after 2 years when you deeply care about your partner and confidence between each other start to arouse.
At the very beginning relationships are shallow but too intense and with the time it starts to change to the opposite. At this point you should have built a strong a structure in terms to make the connection lasts.
The general rules have shown that average relationships last for 4 and a half years, however it changes from one person to another and there are cases where people had been together for the rest of their lives. As long as Eros/intimacy exist everything is possible!
Let us know your thoughts and experiences! Happy to read your stories guys!