We always hear about the importance of sex toys when it comes to get to know you well and discover what you like, what you don’t like and what stimulates you the most! But something that people don’t tell you is that they are great to bring something new to the relationship, especially when you have been together for more than a couple of months.

I know you can easily get worried thinking that they will become into a substitute or rival, but they won’t if you use them wisely! They can be the best complement when you are in the previous phase 😉 but keep in mind the importance of an agreement between you and your partner.

Try different toys, underwear in garments in general

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It’s good to try with different toys to see how your partner responses to each of them. Remember that this is about confidence and will improve the dynamic of the relationship, but if you are just introducing this topic, would be great if you both could visit a sex shop together to pick what you like. This is something that you must introduce slowly to avoid rejection.

Last but not least. Learn how to protect yourself when using them. Condoms and lubricants are a must. Toys can get dusty and are made of plastic so you don’t want to put yourself at risk. Great pleasure is sex’s aim so taboo are out!