Unfortunately for some of us, love doesn’t come all that easy. Before the whole all-consuming love phase, there are countless Tinder dates, long periods of time as you wait by the phone, and plenty of flirting.
And for those of us in search of a date for February 14th, now’s the time to seriously step up your flirting game. Whether you’re hitting the bars with friends or trying a go at sexting, flirting is the first step in the long, drawn out dating game.
To help you nab a date this Valentine’s Day, check out the top 3 flirting tips below.
Flirt with confidence.
Exuding confidence is half the battle when it comes to flirting. Don’t be shy, instead sit back in your chair, look relaxed, and avoid fidgeting. If there’s something you like about your date, say it. Don’t be afraid! Do you like their hair, their smile, their shirt, or their wit? Let them know. Not only does everyone love to receive compliments, but in case there was any doubt, a confident compliment will make clear your romantic feelings towards them.
Don’t underestimate a playful touch.
Body contact is key. Even the slightest touch can send an electric charge through your date, and at the very least will make it clear your interest in them. Start with short and quick touches, such as lightly brushing their elbow as you talk. From there, you can gradually make slower, more intimate moves. While you’re talking, grab their forearm or hand, lean in close when they talk, and maybe even whisper in their ear. And of course, you can’t deny the classic hand holding technique. All of these moves will not only display confidence, but will surely send tingles down your date’s spine.
Wear the right underwear.
Sometimes actions speak louder than words (or in this case, undies speak louder than words). The right pair of undies can make it clear your romantic feelings for and intentions towards your partner. A pair of cotton loose boxers don’t exactly scream sexy. But a lacy red thong? Well, that sends a clear message. Give your date a sneak peek of what’s underneath by adjusting the waistband of your undies a little higher than that of your pants. Alternatively, there’s nothing wrong with the classic maneuvers, e.g. lifting your arms up when you put on your remove your coat to expose your waistband and hips, or bending over to pick up a napkin mid-date. Though this might be a simple one, underwear is sexy and is an excellent way of flirting, especially for all the shy men out there.
Now that your course in flirting 101 is complete, get out there and put your newfound knowledge to good use! You still have over two weeks to secure a date for the big day, and with the tips above this task has never been easier.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
